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  • dinkydow
    Moderator
    • Oct 2024
    • 720

    Another lifelong friend has passed...

    ....I just learned another lifelong friend has passed away. We became pals in kindergarten at Ritzman Elementary school in Akron ,Ohio back in the 1950's. We graduated from HS in 1967 and he was immediately enlisted in the USAF. He stayed in for twenty and retired a master sargent. Moved back to Ohio and went to work for United Airlines at Cleveland Hopkins. He passed away this August in Mesa Arizona. My buddies are all starting to drop and I'm feeling alone. I never thought I would live this long.
  • 44044
    Slug
    • Oct 2024
    • 682

    #2
    I’m sorry for the loss of your friend

    It sure seems like most of mine have passed too

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    • Cujet
      Member
      • Oct 2024
      • 49

      #3
      Sorry to hear of your friend's passing. It's never easy. I lost 6 friends in 2 years. Just one after the other. As happens, only 1 friend is still around. I've made a few new friends, but refuse to call them that, due to the curse...

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      • 4thIDvet
        Slug
        • Oct 2024
        • 1669

        #4
        Sorry for you loss dinky. Yes sadly loosing friends is not easy. Our military reunion each year down in Melbourne Fl. I was afraid to ask where he or she is. You don't realize how much you had till their gone. Best to just look back and remember the funny dumb sheet yah had with your friends and keep smiling.
        Life is short God will come to yah when its our turn..

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        • ColonelKorn
          Senior Member
          • Oct 2024
          • 267

          #5
          😢Lost several in their 50's. No matter what age you're going to miss them.

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          • aviator
            Administrator
            • Oct 2024
            • 2174

            #6
            I know the feeling. We had a nice group since middle school that always hung together, a couple have already dropped. The rest of us have decided to get together in the coming weeks for a couple of beers, We're scattered throughout Florida but we're making arrangements, You never know who is next on the list.
            Sometimes I wish I had a Harry Potter's wand and make people go up into smoke.

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            • Pogo
              Mystic Knight of the sea
              • Oct 2024
              • 621

              #7
              Sorry for your loss Dink.
              We have met the enemy and he is us.

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              • GimpyPaw
                Senior Member
                • Oct 2024
                • 408

                #8
                Getting old sucks. I’ve noticed that my list of contacts in my phone keeps shrinking, and it’s always because they are no longer with us.

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                • dinkydow
                  Moderator
                  • Oct 2024
                  • 720

                  #9
                  Originally posted by 44044
                  I’m sorry for the loss of your friend

                  It sure seems like most of mine have passed too
                  In the last few years the demographics have been removing my lifelong friends and classmates like a fucking grim reaping metronome. I have younger friends but they do not share the times I've past seen. Most all of my Army buddies are in cemeteries now also. We boomers are dropping like flys. The number of Vietnam combat vets left alive must really be becoming small. Sometimes ...like now....it really feels as if the walls are closing in. Perhaps I am overly sentimental...? I dunno but...?

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                  • Wraith
                    Member
                    • Oct 2024
                    • 41

                    #10
                    Sadly, living a long life comes with a price of seeing those around you pass on

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                    • dinkydow
                      Moderator
                      • Oct 2024
                      • 720

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Wraith
                      Sadly, living a long life comes with a price of seeing those around you pass on
                      That is quite true, sadly.

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                      • merc
                        Senior Member
                        • Oct 2024
                        • 394

                        #12
                        RIP , Master Sgt .
                        🫡🇺🇸

                        MERC

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                        • 10-32
                          Senior Member
                          • Oct 2024
                          • 415

                          #13
                          Condolences sir. I turned 60 this year and I have observed my world get smaller with the loss of a few very close friends and family members. As they say it sucks getting old but it beats the alternative. In a strange turn of events, the sister of my first love in high school reached out to notify me of her sister's passing. That one felt a little weird.

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                          • Johnny
                            Senior Member
                            • Oct 2024
                            • 598

                            #14
                            Sorry to hear about your loss. Keeping his memory alive kinda helps.

                            My small circle of friends has largely evaporated due to three decisions I made: retiring early, moving, and getting out of the live band scene. They're still alive but our interests and locations are so different that we just drifted apart.

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                            • remus
                              Junior Member
                              • Oct 2024
                              • 24

                              #15
                              I'm 81 and my only oldest friend is too. He is still kicken but he's the last one. I call him every once in a while hoping he still answers the phone. Every other one I knew that was worth a damn are now gone. I'm not really lonely, but diminished by their absence.

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